The guy you love, the guy you should be with, the guy you can’t help thinking about all day – Is now the guy that got away.
But deep inside you feel this is not the end. That this love story can not be over. You want him back, to smell him again, to feel his arms around you.
Why Texting is the BEST Way to Get Your Ex Back
Texting is often the ONLY way you can communicate with your ex. But luckily, texting happens to be one of the most powerful (if not THE most) way to get your ex back – Without humiliating yourself, coming off needy and clingy, or losing your dignity.
Using texting the right way is like shooting a love-arrow in his heart. We all know that most guys are addicted to their cell phone and never miss any text message sent to them.
Unlike calling him, or writing him an email, texting is a full proof way to get your message across to him. He can’t ignore it. No matter what you write to him, he WILL read it.
How to Get Your Ex Back by Text
But Be Warned: “Bad” Texting Will Ruin Any Chance of Getting Him BackTexting is a double-edged sword. If you use it the right way – You can find your way back to his heart. Use it the wrong way and you will push him further away, probably for good.
Examples of Text Messages to Get Your Ex Back
The truth is that you can’t just randomly send texts, no matter how smart they are, and expect him to crawl back on his knees in 24 hours.
You need a plan.
You need to plan a few specific texts that will help him slowly and gradually reconnect with you and realize you are worth fighting for.
According to relationship coach Michael Fiore (The Author of 3 different texting guides); the first texts should have a purpose of reopening the communication.
The next texts plant positive thoughts and memories in your ex’s mind so he remembers all the reasons he was with you in the first place.
The last ones boost your intimacy and remind your ex how amazing it felt to be close to you.
Text Your Ex Back Examples
Phase #1 – Reopening Communication
The idea behind this type of text is simply to open the lines of communication with your ex after you haven’t talked to them for a while. This text gives him the opportunity to start a conversation with you.
“I just came across that picture of us inside that hurricane simulator booth at the mall. Always makes me laugh. It made me think of you for the first time in a while. Hope you’re doing great”.
Phase #2 – Positive Memories
These texts are sent to make him remember of the many positive, fun moments and loving moments you used to share. You are actually forcing him unconsciously to “see a movie” inside his head, of the best times and closest moments you had together.
“Remember that time we jumped in that golf cart and backed it down? We were so scared…remember how we couldn’t stop laughing when we hit the bottom and realized we were safe? That look you gave me was priceless.”
Phase #3 – I’ll Be There for You
These types of texts are meant to show your ex that you are on his side and always there for him if he needs you. It works especially well if he is going through a rough time emotionally.
“I know you’re probably feeling really stressed right now with your exams coming up. But I just know you’ll do great. Just wanted you to know you were on my mind for a little…”
(Source: Text Your Ex Back by Michael Fiore)
Phases #4 and #5 and More
Since I shamelessly stole these texting examples from Michael Fiore’s program, I feel I have to mention that he and his clever book are the source for this great information.
In his guide you will find a lot more texting types and how exactly to use them, at what order and how to handle his responses (or lack of them).
The book has blueprints that allow you to send texts using your own experiences with your ex while still integrating Michael Fiore’s psychological triggers that make them so darn effective.
If you’d like to find a few more texting examples by Michael Fiore – See this video.
If you want to know more about how to get your ex back by text – See this article.
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