You are completely in love with this guy, but what about him? It seems that he likes you, but something is holding him back. What could be missing? Is there something you are doing wrong? How to make this guy fall in love with you?
Men’s emotions are more easily blocked by their head. A man can really like you and be just a step from completely falling in love with you, but NOT ALLOW himself to fall in love. Men have certain innate needs that must be met before they truly feel connected to you.
What’s Wrong With a Little Manipulation?
If you are truly interested in a man and want him to grow in love, respect and admiration for you, take the high road and NEVER use emotional manipulation strategies, because while they might work, they WILL backfire at some point in your relationship.
#1 Way to Get a Guy to Fall in Love
This is the best known way to help a guy understand and see the wonderful woman you are. Bring out the best in HIM. Every woman has this power, but we tend to forget.
A man will fall in love with a woman who will help him become more and more the man he always wanted to be. If you manage to do this, he will have no choice but to crave being with you. He will feel better about everything about himself: Taller, cuter, more masculine, and more capable. How do you do this? It’s quite simple.
Pay attention to his best qualities and nourish them. I don’t mean just compliment him, though guys really love that, be consciously aware of his strength, loyalty, generosity, courage and compassion. By doing this you are creating a positive energy that will encourage him to be and feel like this. The more he feels good about himself next to you, or thanks to your positive energy, the more you will become irresistible to him.
Way #2 – Celebrate Your Femininity and Vulnerability
This goes back to ancient times and it’s still true today. Men have a protective instinct built into them. Sheltering you from all harm makes him feel more “manly” and feel better about himself (remember the #1 way above?).
This doesn’t mean that you should become helpless and again, no manipulations and deceit, it just means that you can show him you are vulnerable (who isn’t really). Give him chances to take charge, and thank him after he does. I guarantee he will feel so much closer to you.
Way #3 – Let Him Know that he Can Trust You
Even if he really likes you, a guy won’t allow himself to fail in love with you and commit to you, until he can feel he can trust you. I’m not talking about cheating (I hope that’s obvious – Men can almost never forgive cheating), I’m talking about knowing that you will support his life decisions and respect who he really is – Forever.
Simply put, don’t try to change him. A man who feels that you love and respect him “just the way he is” will open up his heart, trust you and fall in love with you.
3 Manipulations to Avoid
There are few common strategies to make a man fall in love with you that involve manipulation and deceit. I highly recommend that you avoid them, even if they work, because a relationship built on lies and manipulation will NOT survive.
- Don’t make him jealous – Don’t flirt with other guys and especially his friends, around him and at all. Flirting with his friends will cause fights between them and he might not forgive you for it.
- Don’t tell him that you love him just to see if he says it back. Say it only if you mean it, and preferably only after he says it first.
- Don’t compare him to your exes to make him feel better than them – Talking about your exes in any way will only make him feel worthless. Don’t forget that you could be ranting about something that he is also doing (like leaving the toilet seat up).
That’s it my friends, I hope you found this useful and please consider sharing it with your friends (at least the part about no manipulation, it’s important…)
Rooting for ya,
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